How often do you, my wonderful, wonderful women, feel butterflies in your stomach when you look at and think about someone you like very much? When was the last time you were filled from the inside with such a feeling? A surge of endorphins, a smile on your face and positive energy at the very thought of that person... Spring and summer are seasons that favour new love. Wonderful nature awakens to life, and long evenings encourage us to meet the other half. Often we have to be careful that our feelings are not hurt, however, and the relationship we are seriously thinking about does not turn out to be a temporary excitement. Each of you has different expectations from the newly met person. Give yourself time and calmly observe your emotions and the behavior of your potential partner.
Feelings, feeling of closeness, having a good time are aspects that are very important. Each of us wants to feel appreciated, loved and respected. Surely many people not only on Valentine's Day, but every day have a man in their environment at the sight of which the blood starts circulating faster in the veins, and the heart beats stronger. And it concerns not only 20 or 30 years old women, but also people 50+. I love to look at couples who have been together for 20, 30, 40 years. But basically, how do you recognize in yourself and the other person whether it is a crush or infatuation? How to distinguish between the two and understand what emotional stage we are at?
Nowadays we are very quick to judge another person by their appearance. We do not know the character of the other person, but we are able to determine whether we could meet him because he is "our type". In the era of Instagram and Tinder we often judge at first glance whether it would be an ideal potential candidate for the future. Often the reality is quite different and we can confuse physical attraction with love. Feelings are the key word here. Their power and permanence distinguishes the two concepts. The state of infatuation makes us feel as if we have sprouted butterfly wings, but this does not always mean that in such a state we should already be planning marriage and children with each other.
At first, the person seems perfect to us. We don't live under the same roof with her, and every date is special. Two parties want to prove themselves, so they listen, do not show fatigue, their flaws, are nicely dressed, perfumed and look deeply into each other's eyes. This is often accompanied by good wine, which loosens the atmosphere even more. We tell everyone about this person in the positive and the relationship seems to be colorful. The state of euphoria lasts a while! This is true infatuation. We like someone physically, but what about their character? How does someone react in different situations? What do we like about this person apart from appearance? Maybe it's a sense of humor, charisma, or maybe personal culture and romantic attitude? Perhaps we're on the same wavelength and there's a lot of ease at meetings? Do we feel like we're walking on clouds and we catch ourselves rocking? That's what infatuation is, not yet infatuation and true love.
Love for another person is a feeling that matures in us over time, becomes mature, we have a bond with a partner with whom there is respect, common topics, taking care of each other in the worse moments - difficult moments, stress, illness and better - cheering on each other's successes and pushing each other forward, thereby motivating. Love also consists of trust.
How to make a great impression on a man we like a lot? - With an outfit well chosen for the date!
Of course, it all depends on what you want this date to look like? Are you going to dinner at a fancy restaurant? Or maybe for a long walk and to the cinema? Or will you spend time actively on a bike trip? It is important to feel comfortable and natural at such a meeting, but also to catch the attention of your potential partner with our sense of humour, modesty and ability to listen. You don't have to emphasize all your physical advantages at the first meeting. There will still be a chance to do so. It is worth getting to know the other person from the intellectual side. The first date will tell us if we want to meet this person again and if there is "chemistry". A small handbag, delicate make-up, earrings emphasizing our complexion, hair color and eyes is it. It's best not to exaggerate with the outfit either one way or the other. Classics always work. Let's also bet on color and show our true personality to intrigue the other person.
Infatuation, a first date, but what next? Does this relationship make sense?
I am the last person to talk about taking a relationship lightly - "because maybe someone better will come along". The one who can really be happy with himself will be happy in a relationship. A relationship is a special job because it is not bound by blood ties. In the case of love you as a woman choose the other person every day. Remember that it is worth treating yourself with affection in every relationship. After all, these are conscious choices for each of us. Love is also conscious work. Our partner is a teacher, and every relationship has given and brought something to your life. I want to mention in this video a few signals that are alarming and worth looking at more closely in a relationship...but I wish everyone a wonderful, long-lasting LOVE.